90 Days to Confidence, Clarity and the Love You Deserve

Yes!  I'm READY to Find THE ONE!

You’ve been on the dating scene a while (or maybe you’re just getting back out there) but it's stressful and love seems SO far out of reach.

You're worried about rejection and letting people down and all the "what ifs" that run through your head...  

You're sick of being disappointed by dead-end relationships and time wasters. Not to mention unsolicited 🍆 pics…

You’re over the unavailable men, the narcissists, the games and ghosting…

You find yourself:

- Overthinking everything - which app to use, what pictures to post, what his profile really says, whether to message him or not...

- Wondering if any single, high value men who want the same things you want even exist...

- Constantly on the lookout for red flags or signs that he's just like your ex...

You have so much to offer but you're beyond frustrated because you can't seem to find someone worth offering it to…

"Date Like You Mean It" is for you. 

I created the "Date Like You Mean It" program because so many smart, successful women just like you struggle to navigate today’s dating scene and find the love they want and deserve.  

This program is specifically structured to provide a simple (but effective) way for you to:

✅ Build your confidence

✅ Attract quality men

Finally have a healthy, happy relationship.

"Date Like You Mean It" is for you if...

You think you might be too career-driven, messy, old, weird or independent to be successful in a long term relationship.

💔 SIDE NOTE: You’re exactly enough right now to be loved, just as you are.

You've ever said something, done something or sent a text and then obsessed about it for an hour.

Your love life feels like a roller coaster - one day you think he might be "The One" and the next day he has you blocked.

You struggle to keep up with the latest dating "rules"

🤷‍♀️ How many dates should you wait to have sex?

🤷‍♀️ What's the best way to keep him interested without seeming desperate?

🤷‍♀️ What does it really mean when you're "left on read"?

"Date Like You Mean It" is for the overthinkers, the empaths and the women who are reluctant to open their hearts but who still really want to be in love.

On your own, the modern dating scene can be a nightmare, but this program is exactly what you need to make finding love with the right man a fun, easy and successful process!

It's Time To Fall In Love Again... ...with your life!

Join the "Date Like You Mean It" group coaching program so you can:

 💕Make peace with your past so it no longer impacts your future 

 💕Let go of your emotional baggage once and for all

 💕Learn exactly why you do what you do and how to stop the patterns that aren’t serving you

 💕Feel more confident in your ability to find love without losing yourself

 💕Get clear on exactly what you want and who you want it with

 💕Start attracting quality men who actually want the same things you do

 💕Discover how healthy boundaries create happy relationships

What's included in the program?

I’ve taken the guesswork out of love and turned it into a simple, 3-month framework:

The first month is all about cleaning up the past. We're finding and letting go of emotional baggage and unhealthy patterns. Let that ish go and stop letting it block you from having the kind of relationship you really want.

In the second month you'll start becoming the woman who has the kind of love you want. You'll focus on loving yourself, harnessing your most amazing qualities, silencing your inner critic and finding the confidence you need to attract a worthy man.

During the third month, you'll get super clear on what you want and how to get it. Time for clarity on what kind of relationship you want, who you want it with and what you're willing to do to get it. Once you know your goals, you'll create a specific roadmap for exactly how to achieve them.

Note:  For the first 30 days, you’re strongly encouraged to get off the apps, take a time out from new dudes, cut off contact with your ex and focus solely on yourself. 

This isn’t required but if you do it, the results will blow your mind.

"Date Like You Mean It" is a 3-month program that includes live trainings, group coaching and membership in the exclusive "Date Like You Mean It" FB group.

Get ALL the details below or CLICK HERE to jump to the TL/DR.

1. 12 Live Trainings ($1,500.00 value)

These weekly live classes will provide practical, step-by-step tools and proven strategies to help you:

Clean up any baggage you have from the past 

Overcome insecurity and negative thinking 

Build confidence to attract the kind of man you really want 

Learn how healthy relationships work and how to stop sabotaging yourself

Uncover the blocks preventing you from having the kind of relationship you really want 

You’ll also receive handouts and assignments to complete during the week to help you deepen your understanding of each concept and dive deeper into what it means for you. 

2. 12 Live Group Coaching Sessions ($2,500.00 value)  

Although talking about your deeply personal stuff in front of a group of women might seem awkward at first, group coaching is a powerful tool that will help you skyrocket your results.  

If you’re the one getting coached, you’ll be able to quickly cut through the confusion, overwhelm and stories in your head to get to the root of what you need to focus on in order to find love. 

Watching someone else get coached can be just as life-changing as getting coached yourself.  You’ll hear answers to questions you didn’t even know you had, you’ll realize you’re not the only one who feels the way you do, and you’ll be able to apply the coaching to your own unique experience, 

3. Membership in the exclusive Date Like You Mean It Facebook group ($1,000.00 value)

For the duration of the program, you’ll be a member of a supportive group of smart, successful women who are all focused on the same thing - leveling up their love life.  


- 90 days of cleaning up the past, feeling confident in the present and getting clear on exactly what you want & how to get it.

- 12 Live Training Videos (w/handouts and assignments): 

$1,500.00 value

- 12 Group Coaching Sessions: 

$2,500.00 value

- 3 Months of Unlimited Support in the exclusive DLYMI FB Group: 

$1,000.00 value

- Confidence, Clarity and a Loving Long-Term Relationship: PRICELESS

TOTAL VALUE:  OVER $5,000.00

YOUR (much smaller) INVESTMENT:

$2,500.00 paid in full or

3 monthly payments of $850.00

You might be thinking, "This is embarrassing. What (insert your age) year old woman has to pay to learn this stuff?"

The truth is, you’re not alone. 

Dating can be complicated at any age. 

When you add in the complexities of dating apps, getting ghosted, avoiding toxic relationships and increased pressure from society - it can be downright overwhelming.  

There’s nothing wrong with you that you haven’t been able to figure this out yourself. 

Most women haven’t. 

With the skills you’ll learn in this program, a little patience, a sense of humor, and an ability to show up as your authentic self, you’ll at least be able to enjoy the ride, despite any bumps along the way.  

You might also be thinking you can just read the books, attend the free classes online, write in your journal and figure all this out yourself.

You might be right - but this is like throwing spaghetti at the wall and hoping it sticks.  And while you’re playing with pasta, everyone else is out there finding their person. 

Here’s the thing - I’ve read the books.  I’ve invested tens of thousands of dollars in training.  I’ve done ALL the work (so you don't have to) and condensed it into three months of what you need the most.  

The Date Like You Mean It program is designed to get right to the heart of the matter.  You’ll clean up your past, get right with yourself in the present, and then go after exactly what you want in the future in a way that is faster, simpler, and way more fun than anything you could do on your own. 

You might also be thinking you can’t afford this program or you don’t have time.

But think about how much it’s costing you not to do this.  

😩 Hours wasted swiping and scrolling, getting your hopes up and planning dates that never happen... 

😩 Getting your nails done, getting a blowout, buying a new outfit - only to end up having drinks with a man who isn't even close to husband material...

😩 Friends and family members who are tired of listening to you complain about being alone or going on yet another bad date…

I mean, when you look at it that way, you really can’t afford not to do it.

This program WILL change your life. But don't just take my word for it!

These beautifully brave women allowed me to share their thoughts about working with me.

I hope their words inspire you to believe in your own potential for happiness, respect, and loving relationships.

Melissa is the real deal. She is an extremely talented coach. Not only have I learned so much from her, but she has allowed me to gain true insight into my past relationship problems.

My experience of working with Melissa has been nothing short of transformational. She helped me start the journey of self-love that has made all of my interpersonal relationships more meaningful.

- Laura K. (Doral, FL)

"I have learned so much about myself through this program and working with Melissa. Not only did I meet new friends but it was such a comfortable atmosphere that we all worked together and learned from our different situations.

I continue to apply what I learned every day. Melissa, you are a beautiful person and I am so happy to have met you and thankful you have helped me!

- Jodi C. (Pottstown, PA)

"I'm living a better quality of life and living more confidently thanks to this program. Melissa will give you the tools and guidance to better yours as well!

Her empathy, kindness and compassion shows as she works to get you so much closer to the love that you want and deserve.

- Tiffany P. (Centreville, VA)

Melissa is an incredible coach. She lays it out with love, simplicity, and honesty. When I talk to her, I feel like I'm talking to someone that I've known for years.

She has taught me how to love by showing me that I'm worthy of love. Melissa is a bright example to me, and is the coach we all want and deserve in our court.

- Lara J. (Farmington, UT)

I am so grateful for the Relationship Reset course Melissa offered. She and the course has helped to transition me into becoming an even better version of myself and a better partner. Her weekly coaching and advice was so valuable and informative. Thank you Melissa for creating a course that truly can change lives. I am forever grateful for you!

- Jen L. (Boulder, CO)

"The way Melissa guides you to question your 'stories' is masterful! She brought to light thoughts that were not even on my radar. (And I'm a life coach myself!)

What Melissa teaches comes from her expertise, unique wisdom and incredible coaching skill! Relationship coaching with Melissa will provide you with such personal insight and you will actually learn to trust in yourself. Give yourself this gift, you deserve it!

- Holly M. (Sacramento, CA)

About Me:

I reached a point in my life where I had so much going for me. I owned my own home, my career was on track, I had wonderful friends and I was #adulting. But my romantic life up until this point was a shit show.

I kept having relationships (and situationships) with men who had potential but would never be right for me. They were emotionally unavailable, dishonest, had narcissistic tendencies, or just weren’t great people.

It didn’t make sense.

I was smart, successful and a genuinely good person, so why did it seem like things were working out for everyone but me?

I didn’t know what to do but I knew I couldn’t keep doing this.

I realized I had become dependent on relationships with men to make me feel worthy and that was not who I wanted to be.

So I started a journey.

Through therapy, coaching, and a “man-free-year” I discovered how to be my own best friend. I stopped feeling like a victim. I also learned how to give myself the feelings of love, validation, and worthiness I craved.

As I began to share what I’d learned with the women around me, I realized that I wasn’t alone - SO many women were having the same struggles I was!

I knew then exactly what I was put here to do.

I became a Certified Love and Life Coach in 2016 and devoted my life to helping smart, successful women just like you finally have the love they want and deserve!

In 2020, I launched the Love Starts Here podcast, which has now been downloaded over 25,000 times in over 125 countries!

Bonus: I now have a fiancé who loves and appreciates me, too.